Brenda Becker, formerly of Top Drawer Resources, originally shared the following information with me, which I have updated slightly. Brenda was an expert in senior transitions. I pass this along to those of you who are considering whether to remain in your home to age, relocate to a smaller more manageable home, or move to a retirement community. Each has its merits. Many of us would prefer to remain in our homes to age, but it may not always be possible or advisable. Retirement communities, both rental communities and entrance-fee based Continuing Care Retirement Communities, offer many benefits that can challenge the appeal of remaining at home. Here are just 10 things Brenda suggested that you consider.

1. Social opportunities – Isolation is a common complaint and concern for those remaining in their homes alone. In a retirement community, residents can choose to spend time alone or immerse themselves in community life. It is an opportunity to discover new hobbies and interests or reengage old ones. Intellectual stimulation comes from social programs; community resources like libraries, media centers and computer labs; and new dinner companions.
2. Prepared meals – Cooking for one or two can become tedious and uninspiring. Most retirement communities include at least one meal per day in the monthly service fee. This one meal encourages you to dine with other residents. You choose your meal plan, but you can still prepare your own breakfast and lunch, if you choose. Many communities also offer consultations with a dietician who works with the kitchen to ensure every meal is suitable for the residents.
3. Minimum, if any, home maintenance – Imagine never having to clean the gutters, cut the lawn, rake the leaves, unclog a sink or toilet, replace the roof, etc. You can replaced these chores with pleasurable activities like gardening (for fun) and woodworking.
4. Access to on-site healthcare – Depending on the community, healthcare is either included in the monthly fee or paid for on a fee-for-service basis. In either case, it is very convenient to have a clinic, assisted living, rehab services, and skilled nursing care available in close proximity. Not only is this a comfort to you when you need such services, but it is a blessing for your spouse who no longer drives and would otherwise find visiting a challenge, as well as for your children who want you to have the best care possible.
5. Focus on wellness and fitness – Most communities now offer fitness centers and exercise classes. Indoor pools and whirlpools are also commonly available.
6. Access to transportation – Trips to area grocery stores and shopping centers are typically scheduled on a weekly basis. You may also be able to arrange rides to medical appointments. In some communities this is included in the monthly fee, while in others there is an extra fee.
7. Emergency support – Emergency pull cords, daily resident checks and trained personnel all support residents’ emergency needs.
8. Safety – Communities go to great lengths to keep residents safe with things such as handicap accessible accommodations, 24/7 security, gated entrances or other safety features. Typically, that’s more than you will find in an average home!
9. Downsizing when and how you wish – By moving to a smaller home, you will likely need to sort through a lifetime of “stuff.” Having the opportunity to distribute family heirlooms, favorite zany mementos or comfy furniture can result in meaningful exchanges both you and your recipients.
10. Peace of mind – Finally, something that should not be minimized is the peace of mind that comes to both residents and their adult children when the move is complete. Knowing that supports are now in place, if and when they are needed, allows the family to move forward and focus on positive, less worrisome, topics of conversation.